Just ask the millions of women out there that are secretly hoping for him to suddenly see them for the great women they are so they can have their fairytale ending. But… Fallback Girls and assclown lovers are obsessed with the big question: Will he try to get in contact with me? To add insult to injury, Mr Unavailables and assclowns are lazy. They may not even call; they might skip straight to text, instant messenger or email!
But first you need to figure out why he stopped talking to you. In my experience, the most common reason for a guy to stop talking to his girlfriend is because she has been harassing him. If you are constantly messaging and calling your ex, then he is bound to get tired of you. He understands that you are hurt from the breakup, and he understands that you want to convince him to get back together, and he is tired of it. Read how to use texts properly to get your ex back. When you are messaging him constantly or commenting on all of his facebook status updates, you are telling him that you are not still needy and desperate.
When you break up with someone, it is traumatic. Even if you did the breaking up, you still feel uncertain. Did you make the right decision? Should you try to get back together with him? If he broke up with you, this process is even more stressful.
Almost two years ago, a guy I was head-over-heels in love with broke up with me quite suddenly. We saw each other for days at a time but often weeks apart. Being with him was easy—we seemed to approach life the same way and were constantly laughing, touching, and talking. He taught me about beer, and I taught him a little French. The breakup itself was awful.