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My first sexual experience happened in a hotel room while other guys in my church youth group slept. He touched me. I touched him. We were trembling. Getting better at bottoming required me to see through all that, and trust my experience.
Now that we have that out of the way, I can help you be a better bottom! Will you be as good as me? No, absolutely not. But you will be better than you were. You may be wondering what qualifies me to give such admonishment, to which I say….
Successful and pleasurable bottoming takes time and practice through dilation exercises, training of your self-awareness, and control of the pelvic floor. The good news? Of course, it may be uncomfortable at first and you might initially question how there could ever be pleasure in it — something that happens with vaginal sex the first time as well — but like anything it takes practice, patience, and following a few simple guidelines to enhance this sexual practice.