After our article focusing on methods for masturbation involving a penis , we received a lot of feedback asking how women masturbate. Masturbation for vulva-having folks is something LELO has always been dedicated to enhancing through our pleasure products , but the techniques are not always described in explicit terms. And that is one of the most important part of masturbation to focus on, as part of your personal sexuality. While we can and do, and do recommend masturbating with your partner , masturbation is an important part of your personal relationship with your own sensuality and pleasure.
Masturbating should always be a fun and pleasurable experience, ending in a body-shaking, quivering goodness. Some of these techniques may be a bit on the wild side for you, but I really hope you will at least try them once. But before you try these masturbation techniques, you'll want to set the mood for sensuality by stimulating your senses. First, you need to choose a nice scent for your room, from perfumes to deodorants or incense. The choice is ultimately up to you. You then need to set up the lighting in the room. You may prefer it to be very dark or you may like having the lights only slightly dimmed to be best.
Yes, it's at thing and yes, you really should be celebrating. I mean, a lot of celebrate at least a few times a week anyway , but why not? Learning how to make yourself orgasm is the most empowering experience you will ever have," Vanessa Marin, sex therapist and founder of Finishing School , tells Bustle. So how can we celebrate masturbation month? Well, by making our masturbation routines even better.
Because you set the agenda and control the action by yourself, on your own terms, masturbation may be the best way to learn what turns you on. Most people raised as girls are set up to not enjoy sex in one way or another. They aren't told very much about their bodies in detail at least not about their genitals , they may be told that sex is something to be afraid of, something to resist. All of us are raised with at least some negative messages about our bodies and some shame about sex. While this title of this guide is masturbation for women, the truth is that not all women's bodies are the same.